Showing posts with label homeless. Show all posts
Showing posts with label homeless. Show all posts

Friday, 19 December 2008

A year ago - Ethiopia


It's Gabriel's Day and for almost half of Ethiopia's population this means a day at church, and a holiday for everyone. It was an amazing thing to witness.



At the entrance to a church, crowds wax and wane


The grass is sold to be laid inside the house to freshen it and also in some way to mark a new beginning or "fresh start".


A street seller







Crowded streets on Gabriel's Day


This woman smiles shyly as she sells her candles.


Some of the crowd in one street near a church, Gabriel's Day.


It's Gabriel's Day (after the Archangel Gabriel) and the citizens of Addis come out in their hundreds of thousands to celebrate. Impromptu markets are near every church and everything you could imagine is on sale, including candles and very colourful umbrellas used for offerings.


An Addis street


Koni and Dagem say goodbye with a typical open-handed slap "handshake". The harder the bigger the "slap" (that is how far back the arm is taken, and the slap never hard enough to hurt), the more affection and regard you have for a person (the same in Egypt). Once the hand is slapped a loose and quick shake follows.


The Emperor Haile Selassie's throne, in the Museum.


Dagem, one of the former street boys who lived in Ermi's House, or the Hope Centre, looks at Lucy's skeleton in the Museum. We went to the Museum on a "field trip". The boys were all fascinated with their country's history and culture. The oldest humans known have been found in Ethiopia. Lucy, several million years old, was discovered there in 1974.


"The interestingly named "I Love You Hotel"



Building scaffolding - I used to hold my breath watching the workers go up this ramp, bags of cement and other materials across their shoulders


A man makes his living with a sewing machine at his "shop" on the street


Pedestrians walk past one of the "plastic houses" of the homeless














Shoe shine "boys", some of the homeless of Addis. When Sentayhu asked me about shoe shine boys in Australia and I told him we didn't have any he couldn't contain his amazement and referred to it often.



Just a small supermarket


Near the end of the street that eventually leads to the girls' house (Joy Centre)


One of the small workshops where artists make goods for sale to tourists like me. I bought beautiful beads, a wonderful knitted shawl that I use all the time, saw weavers and artists at work.

G'day. I've been looking through some photos while I've been home and of course many of them are from Africa last year. I miss Ethiopia and all the wonderful kids and even Addis - I really found a heart-to-heart connection there. Sadly Konjit tells me that the Youth Impact Library hasn't opened again yet after the summer break when this year it closed down, not offering a summer program. It's all money of course, that's all, such a simple answer to this particular problem. Not even a lot of money.

Is there anyone out there who knows how to access around $30,000 US to make this amazing project basically self-sufficient for the forseeable future? $20,000 for one year's operation and $10,000 to set up the little business venture that should make it self-sufficient. Anyone who could help or who has ideas don't hesitate to let me know - PLEASE!

Anyway, I hope that you enjoy these few photos of Addis that you probably didn't see before.

Hope you enjoy,

lots of love

Lyndall

PS Tomorrow the kids go away for the day and so I will add some more photos and stories from the African trip

Saturday, 1 December 2007

The streets of Addis


A sleeping place is anywhere you can find a spot



Two young boys light a fire of rubbish in the early morning

The pre-dawn air in Addis Ababa is cool and a full moon is setting in the west as in the east the sky slowly lightens. We set out at 11.30 local time (5.30am in standard time) to drive through the city before the street people have woken or been woken by the many police strolling through the streets. Everywhere, bundles of plastic and blankets cover sleeping bodies, which lie in rows on footpaths, on the road and in the centre of roundabouts and road dividers. Some sleep amongst piles of rubbish, some huddled together for warmth and protection and some without covering on the bare stones, alone.

We pass a pack of street dogs also curled together for warmth and in their animal innocence it seems obvious that they have a simpler, easier life than their human counterparts just metres away.

We take the same route we took the first morning we came to the streets, when the enormity and tragedy of what I was seeing made it impossible to get it out of my mind and yet impossible to write about or even to talk about. It’s earlier today than it was then and so there are even more bundles still wrapped on the footpath like so much rubbish left out for removal.

As on the first morning we once again we approach the bus station; once again there are immense queues and crowds of people either going to or coming from the country on the battered and overburdened buses that pull in and out in clouds of black smoke. As we approach, a group of women and children who have recently packed up their beds cross the road in front of us. Sometimes driving the streets in the day we see a few women who sit together in the same place, begging with their children crawling or running around their legs. If begging doesn’t suffice to feed the children I can only imagine what is needed to be able to live. Ermias confirms my thoughts.

Potential passengers and street people walk around the piles of rubbish in the streets, both avoiding where possible the many police also patrolling on foot. Donkeys thread their way through the throng, not all are laden at this early hour, but all are constantly goaded by their owners to keep them moving. Men walk by with huge bundles of cardboard carefully balanced on their heads and down a side street a flock of goats, or maybe fat-tailed sheep, are herded by a young boy.

All around the buses and taxis, street dwellers able and disabled, young and old, beg, or sell small items; we see one young man running alongside a bus, finalising a deal with a passenger for a newspaper. Around the bus station the constant blare of horns, music and the cries of people shreds the cool and morning air. The clouds of black smoke from the ageing vehicles stings our noses, as does the stench of the piles of rubbish on the footpaths. Addis in the early morning assails all the senses.

Other street boys begin to set up their shoe shine stands, getting ready to catch any early customers. Some of them notice the ferangi in the passing car and wave or smile, asking for their photo to be taken. Further down the street a group of boys play soccer in the road. I ask are they street boys? Ermias says maybe some of them, but others will be ordinary young men who have no other space in which to play. As we approach another street “boy”, older, sees me taking photos and, pulling his blankets around him, he begins to dance, signaling and beckoning me to take some shots while he performs. I get out of the car further down to take more photos, street people still sleep on the footpath under a wall decorated with art, the boys kicking the football around them. One long kick comes my way and to cheers and laughter I boot it back into the game. A few final shots and we are once again on our way, leaving behind the ironic image of the art work and the homeless, a tattered blanket wrapping a sleeping bundle at the foot of a painted road leading to home.

Home?


We come to an open space in front of an Orthodox Church. Many homeless and beggars gather at churches and mosques, hoping no doubt that the faithful fresh from their prayers may be more generous in spirit. A fire is burning on the bare dirt and huddled close to it are two young boys, one of whom looks to be about 11. Something about the pair really stabs at my heart and I ask Ermi to stop so that I can offer some money and also maybe get a photo. The youngest boy comes to the car while the other hides his head. He is cold, dirty, bare foot, and I can see where tears have tracked through the dust on his face. I ask can I take his picture and he agrees, somehow producing a smile that could light the most remote corner of anyone’s heart. This picture says so much, is full of so much meaning for me that it becomes my most treasured of African images.

The light is growing stronger and fewer sleeping forms line the footpaths and roads. Once again I am in emotional overload and we decide its time for breakfast and coffee. And just like the first morning it’s difficult to eat much and the conversation is subdued and desultory. But despite the challenging few hours I’ve just spent I know that I will always be grateful and never forget that I’ve seen this side of Addis, that I’ve been able to better understand just one of the facets of this complex city and this beguiling country.

Addis Ababa has street people estimated variously between 100,000 and 400,000 – I can’t seem to find a definitive figure. They are people of all ages and both genders, some as young as three, others obviously in their later years. The young and women are particularly open to abuse of all types. Many spend their days chewing chud, a mild narcotic that helps the days pass in a dream. Some make a subsistence living selling lottery tickets, tissues or other small items. Many young men work at shining shoes. Others simply beg.

A variety of circumstances see lives come to this desperate pass. Over 50% of Ethiopia’s population is aged between 15 and 24. Many young people are orphaned, often due to HIV/AIDS, sometimes they are forced out of home through second marriages and failed family relationships or the inability of other family members to care for them. Rural people are drawn to the city in hard times seeking work, even though unemployment is high, some say 60%.
The organisation with which I was associated in Addis, Youth Impact Ethiopia, runs a program for young men on the street, taking 12 at a time into residential care for 6 months and providing not only formal schooling but also concentrated lessons in integrity, work ethics, self-esteem and discipline. Once the program is complete places are found in vocational schools and support is continued until the men find work. The program, based on love, understanding, developing moral strength and self discipline, works miracles in the lives of these young people, something I have seen with my own eyes. The program is deep, not broad, but is proving that this approach has significant and permanent results for individuals. In future, if the ripple effect comes into play, it may also profoundly affect Ethiopian society.

Youth Impact can be contacted at: ermi_zel@yahoo.com (Ermias) or konij2002@yahoo.com (Konjit). Any assistance would make a significant difference.


Love

Lyndall

Saturday, 17 November 2007

Party time


Here we are all together


With Ledet, Tasfaye and Abraham at the back

Just to finish off my last week in Ethiopia if I can.

On the last Sunday everyone went off to church except 3 of the girls who were at home apparently not well but still doing some household chores - dealing with some vegetables that had been delivered by someone. After church time I had said that I would visit the boys and Ermi's house so off we went. Ermi's house was first and Koni and Ermi went off to a quick meeting while I stayed with the boys - we looked at photos again and just talked and kept telling each other how much we would all miss each other. No English lesson but I wrote some things they wanted - words to a couple of Gospel songs in English, a couple of sayings about courage, love, compassion. We also had a great lunch during which the boys celebrated with a big sort of thank you party for Ermi, Koni and Simon, with cake and candles and balloons. Some of the boys from previous "batches" came as well so it was like a reunion and a party. They sort of see Ermi and Koni as mother and father figures, Simon is the other guy who lives in the house and helps with teaching and running the house.

Koni headed off home, saying she had another meeting and left me there for Ermi to take over later and then on the the other boys' house. It was getting later and Ermi had me doing a couple of things on the computer, printing some files and things. The boys took off for another "lesson" and then Ermi and I headed for the other boys, via home to collect Koni.

It was getting pretty late by now, but it gets dark early in Addis and we often walked home in the dark. I could hear the girls getting stuff done and giggling away, deciding to play games with us by not letting us in. Finally however the door opened and I was greeted by EVERYONE all arranged in the courtyard with streamers, balloons, songs, Abraham was there with his daughter and US guests, Henok and Eden from the library, and the cooks from both houses and everyone shouting "surprise".

And was I surprised! I have to say that I had absolutely no idea whatsoever - I guess you can arrange a party like this when the guest of honour doesn't speak the language. Koni was telling me that when they were looking at photos and I thought they were all talking about the photos - no, talking about the party! And so on. And all the food that was delivered - not a week's supply but all magnificently prepared for one BIG night of celebration.

So there were speeches from lots of people, even I had to give one, and there were presents - the first one very early in the night from all the kids was a traditional Habesha dress and shawl into which I had to immediately change and enjoy the party - so that I was a proper Ethiopian mother. There were songs, and dancing (Koni says I have definitely been a very bad influence - there never used to be dancing - but everyone joined in even the shy kids, one of whom turned out to be a great dancer!) There was a campfire, and games and one where people picked by chance have to perform something, so there were jokes and little plays and all sorts of things and of course I was chosen by Sentayehu "by chance" and had to sing several songs including our national anthem (thank goodness I know the words!) . That was much better than the alternative, which they had decided was impersonating a kangaroo!!

And there was a present from the boys house and one special one from Tasfaye (a great pen with a globe on top to remind me of where they are all the time) The food was fabulous and I had to take first plate but I didn't get to eat anything of what was on my plate I was fed by everyone and in turn fed to others what I had. Abraham and his guests left fairly early but we partyed on until fairly late. I don't think I have ever in my life been so hugged, kissed and celebrated. I doubt there was a time the whole night where someone wasn't hugging me, holding my hand, sitting on my knee, having me sit on their knee. I kept moving all night trying to sit with and talk to everyone - we all danced together of course, Ermi kept everyone in stitches and it was just an amazing night that I will never ever forget. Henok took tons of photos and Navi also used the other camera so I have a good record of all the festivities and some great group photos.

So, the end was really drawing nigh! Only 3 days to go but still lots to do and goodbyes to say. I guess it will still take one more posting!

Gotta go, time is up on the terminal - still can't post photos sorry guys.

Some of you know that I have delayed my return by almost a week due to being ill - I will now be back on the 22nd. On another course of antibiotics and still not really eating (not that that will do me any harm) and really hoping that I will be completely fit by the time that travel time comes. Also dropped my mobile and had it run over, so communication is sparse again!

Will add more when I can

lots of love

Lyndall

Saturday, 3 November 2007

Taking to the streets - and more



Addis begins to wake up

But some still sleep anywhere they can find a place - what is there to wake up to?



More on week 2 -


A female street cleaner on the left tries to sweep up some of the rubbish - so much plastic!


Yesterday morning we went out early to see the streets before the homeless all got up. It was so sad, afterwards I cried lots (and Ermi and I had a cry together). The numbers were incredible – on footpaths, in the road, on the dividers, in shop doorways – literally thousands of them wrapped in blankets and plastic. I didn’t really get any good photos, Ermi didn’t want to stop and let me out, but I need to get some just to show people what this level of poverty is really like. I got some from the car but they are not really clear of course. And the rubbish, in huge piles, goats eating it, people sifting through it. Mothers with children, old men, people with all sorts of disabilities, young men and boys (Koni says that children as young as 3 live on the streets and are abused in all sorts of ways, made to steal, beaten etc. etc.)


We approach the bus station - this is for buses that take people out of Addis. A policeman is in the pale fawn trousers and dark jacket


We went past a bus station, huge queues of people waiting to get on buses and in the cabs, and TOTAL traffic chaos which took us a while to get through. And everywhere piles of chud (at least I think that’s how it’s spelled, that’s how it’s pronounced) which is chewed green and I think must be a bit like chewing a coca leaf – a mild stimulant. Some of the homeless just sit for hours chewing. Ermi just said to me as we were driving away – “This is my country”. He looked so sad. (And I’m crying again just writing this down). And yet, the kids that they take off the street are such high achievers, many of the kids do amazingly well academically.

Around 3 million people in Ethiopia are currently infected with HIV/AIDS. The rate of infection is increasing rapidly, and in Addis Ababa, one in six adults are already infected. Street children are particularly vulnerable to infection due to their low state of health and their susceptibility to becoming involved with sex work to survive. Children living and working on the street are at great risk of abuse and exploitation, and their susceptibility is worsened by a general lack of awareness regarding HIV/AIDS prevention in the community at large. I asked Koni if any of the girls or boys is infected but she said no-one has been tested. I’m not sure why – maybe they don’t want anyone to be treated any differently. I saw a guy on the street yesterday wearing a shirt that just said HIV NEGATIVE. And obviously proud of it.

I’ve also met Abraham, the older man of the Impact organisation who lived in Canada for lots of years and has come back to live in Ethiopia to try and make a difference. He’s a gray-haired, gorgeous (and married) man. And I went to the mentor’s house (where they train young men and women so that they can mentor others – subjects like integrity, work ethic, self-esteem etc. ) and met more lovely people (and got prayed over again – it seems I am a blessing and need to be cared for). One has a little child and one has a baby due yesterday so I will get to take some photos of beautiful babies soon. One of the mentor trainees had some seizures on Monday and Tuesday. Everyone (including me) has chipped in for a CT scan for him – difficult to get and expensive in Ethiopia. I think he had it yesterday – hopefully it’s something like epilepsy that can be managed and not something more serious. (It turned out that nothing at all showed up on the CT scan so what happened remains a mystery but he seems to be OK)

Tasfaye's baby girl named for Ruth (in the Bible)

Sentayehu

Ledet, Kidist and one of the Mahluts now call me their mother, as do Sentayehu, Nati, Engadu and Masfen at the boys’ house. Mahlut tells me I am really mother to all the girls and boys. All of the boys are SO loving (girls too). Sometimes you can stand in a hug for several minutes as they just don’t want to let you go. So it takes a long time to arrive and leave any of the houses – you have to factor in hug time coming and going. Sentayhu was the first boy to adopt me, he’s beautiful (maybe 14?) and Ledet has been my baby since I arrived (11 I think). The family is growing guys! I will find it difficult to leave them behind.

Tomorrow all the younger boys and girls and a handful of adults and me all get on a bus for a weekend out of Addis. The excitement level continues to rise and this house has started cooking for the picnic. Some sort of onion sauce I think. We’re taking breakfast and lunch, we’ll eat out for dinner. Koni and I ate out for dinner the other night – it cost A$8 for the two of us in the restaurant (food and drink). Coffee at Kaldi’s is around 75 cents a cup. Some things are very cheap - some things (like a new card reader when mine died), are expensive.

Will add more on the third week shortly
lots of love
Lyndall

Ethiopia - Going out with "the boys"


Ermi's "boys" - from l to r: Salelewe, Ferke, me, Ermi (behind), Yonas, Koni, Zelalam and Terfe (now no longer with the boys, he says that there is something in him that will always make him a street boy and he left the house not long after this) - Dagam is missing from the photo - I don't know how, he's in just about every other one...

Taking up the story...

This morning is Friday here and it’s a school holiday as it’s one of the Muslim holy days. At the moment I am still in bed listening to the girls at prayers and once again I know I’m not anywhere near home. Prayer is sometimes silent, sometimes spoken aloud, and sometimes sung (in Amharic with an Arabic, Indian sound to it). As in many other parts of Africa it seems that everyone has a voice worth recording – all the girls together sound quite beautiful. The only music they listen to is gospel music unless on one of the two TV stations there is traditional song and dance – and that seems to be about 95% of the time.

The girls seem to be having different “devotions” this morning with lots more prayers. Every Wednesday and Friday is fasting until lunch and praying day for the adults of the organisation. On Wednesday they did that here while I worked on the computer. First of all a discussion about problems and issues with all the children and Bible readings – then praying for around an hour I thought it seemed, again with some spoken and singing too, but just this low rising and falling chant.

Ethiopian dancing has to be seen to be appreciated – it’s the most incredible shoulder movements – up and down and in and out – when I watch some of it it seems to me to be a miracle that shoulder dislocations aren’t the order of the day. I got to experience being in the middle of it last Sunday night. I took Koni and Ermi and Ermi’s “boys” out to dinner at a traditional Ethiopian restaurant – usually only for locals so once again we were the centre of attention.
The "boys" l to r: Yonas and Terfe in front, at the back Ferke, Salelewe, Ermi, Dagum, Zelalam and Sisye (one of an earlier group who lives at the house)

Ermi’s “boys” are not really boys. There are 6 of them, aged from 18-30 (estimated, lots of people don’t know their birthdays or ages here) and they are all young men who have, until a month ago, been homeless – in the terminology here – “street boys”. One of them has lived on the streets for as long as 13 years. So they don’t have education. I bought them all new shirts and Koni and I were escorted out by all the men and once again I’m treated as someone really loved and special. I took my point and shoot and we took a huge amount of photos. They were so excited they could hardly contain themselves and Ermi, Koni and I had our photos taken with all of them and they had all sorts of combinations taken too, as well as group photos.

Zelalam watching as the waitress pours traditional coffee

Ethiopian food doesn’t have a huge variety of dishes, at least that I’ve seen. Injera, made from a grain called tef (which has been fermented in some way), is served with every meal. It is made like a very large thin pancake and is quite flexible. It is rolled into a roll for serving, but then unrolled and used as the “plate” (sitting on a real plate, either dinner plate sized if you are eating singly, or when eating together as a huge plate in the middle, maybe more than half a metre across). All the sauces are spooned onto it, or bowls of meat placed next to it (on little coal burners). To eat you break off a piece of injera with your right hand, roll up some sauce and into the mouth. People feed each other, at least you feed people you really like or care about. You should take it without getting their fingers. (and no-one ever refuses to take it). So Dagam, who was sitting next to me, rolled up some sauce and I took it – meat of course to the great consternation off others. Everyone was yelling at the poor guy so I had to work hard to make them understand it was all right. Injera is a grey colour and sort of sour. I can eat some of it but not a lot.

Anyway, the only food for me at the whole restaurant was “cheese with butter” and one injera sauce. It’s also made from tef, so it’s like eating injera with injera. However, the cheese with butter was much better than I anticipated, it was like a cottage cheese and had some herbs in it as well. One of the adults, Simon, ate raw meat – that’s what the rich eat – slice off a piece and roll it in injera and go for it. I couldn’t even look. Coffee after the meal, in small cups without handles, so strong you could stand a spoon in it and no sugar for me – it had vanished by the time I got my coffee. Still, it’s all part of the experience!

Afterwards, Ermi grabbed me by the hand and said “Lyndah (what I’m called here) – come, dance” and we promptly gate-crashed a wedding. So we were in the middle of all the dancing, singing, ululating guests and I had to dance! I was introduced to someone (I think the father of the bride or groom) and had to dance with him. Along with gospel music only, there’s no dancing encouraged (although the girls do dance to the gospel music and practice the traditional stuff) so Ermi dancing too was considered a great joke by Koni and all the boys. He’s told the boys it’s OK if you’re dancing with a ferangi, otherwise – not allowed! Some of the guests were incredible with the shoulder stuff – I figure you must have to do it practically from birth to be able to manage it!
Some of the guests really knew how to shake their shoulders!
Ermi and I join the dancing with the man in the suit (I think he might have been the father of the bride or something, anyway I had to dance with him)

This week it’s been more English (back to basics of writing and pronunciation), storytelling at the library, writing funding proposal letters and finding agencies to send them to (have an appointment with UNICEF next week) and finalizing the budget for the library.
Next - going out with Ermi to the streets
Lots of love Lyndall